Friday, April 12, 2013

"The Fault in Our Stars" {by John Green} Book Review


“Sometimes, you read a book and it fills you with this weird evangelical zeal, and you become convinced that the shattered world will never be put back together unless and until all living humans read the book.”

-from Fault in our Stars-



TITLE OF THE BOOK: The Fault in Our Stars
AUTHOR: John Green
NUMBER OF PAGES: 336
YEAR PUBLISHED: 2012
READING LEVEL: Young Adult (Ages 14 +)
GENRE: Realistic Fiction



SUMMARY:  At 16, Hazel Grace Lancaster, a three-year stage IV–cancer survivor, is clinically depressed. To help her deal with this, her doctor sends her to a weekly support group where she meets Augustus Waters, a fellow cancer survivor, and the two fall in love. Both kids are preternaturally intelligent, and Hazel is fascinated with a novel about cancer called An Imperial Affliction. Most particularly, she longs to know what happened to its characters after an ambiguous ending. To find out, the enterprising Augustus makes it possible for them to travel to Amsterdam, where Imperial’s author, an expatriate American, lives.


Delicious Reads Star Rating: 4.25 out of 5

OUR GROUP REVIEW: Brittanie presented us with a fabulous PowerPoint presentation (see it here) including a 10 question quiz, review of the main characters (Hazel and Augustus), photos of Amsterdam and the Anne Frank House, and great discussion questions. After eating our fabulous meal, we got down to business.

Overall, the group loved the book, some even giving it a 5 star rating. We were glad to hear that it will be soon made into a movie (2014).We thought it was interesting that the author John Green worked as a chaplain at a children's hospital. John's experiences with patients and their families during intense crises solidified his desire to write for teens about the challenge of confronting loss.  
Here are the questions we discussed and our group's answers:
    1. Augustus inquires about Hazel's background and tells her, "Don't tell me you're one of those people who becomes their disease." In what ways do Augustus, Hazel and Isaac fight to keep cancer from defining who they are? How do they work to prevent it from consuming all aspects of them?

    They used sarcasm as a means to cope.
    They were veterans of disease - didn't want it to be who they were.
    Sense of humor: They joked about things being a "side effect" of …
    Brittany talked about her mother-in-law's battle with cancer

    2. Why does Hazel feel so desperate to find out what happens beyond the ending of An Imperial Affliction? What does this indicate about her need for understanding about what comes "after"?
    Hazel needed to know what would happen to her family (worried about her mom "I'm not going to be a mom anymore")
    She projects the book on her own life.


    3. John Green derives his book's title from a famous line in Shakespeare's Julius Caesar: "The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves, that we are underlings."  What does the line mean, and why would Green have used it for his title? Even more important, why would he have altered it to read, "The fault in our stars" rather than ourselves? How does Green's meaning differ from Shakespeare's?

    We didn't choose to have cancer (some do). No one is immune, we can't blame, we just have to accept it .

    4. What do you think about Peter Van Houten, the fictional author of An Imperial Affliction? John Green, has said that Van Houten is a "horrible, horrible person but I have an affection for him." Why might Green have said that? What do you think of Van Houten?

    He was like a cartoon character, not real person.
    He was kind of a weirdo.
    You felt pity once you found out about his daughter.
    He was the opposite of hazel/Augustus.
    Touched on the topic of parents splitting up when children die.


    5. What do you think of Hazel's idea of being a "grenade"? Do you think it's better of her to not involve herself more so to incur less casualties?

    It's crazy to think that they are all just kids and have to face this. We liked this metaphor, but felt bad for Hazel.
    Even though they are so young, Gus stuck by Caroline (his past girlfriend) through her bad attitude and behavioral changes the tumor caused her.
    Some people can't face grenades - We all loved the egging of Isaac's girlfriends car.
    (Side question: What about Augustus/Hazel making love in Amsterdam?
    Everyone loved it – especially Hazel's note with the circles.)

    6. What did you make of the book's humor? Is it appropriate...or inappropriate? Green has said he "didn't want to use humor to lighten the mood" or "to pull out the easy joke" when things got hard. But, he said, he likes to write about "clever kids, [and they] tend to be funny even when things are rough." Is his use of humor successful? How did it affect the way you read the book?

    I was our favorite part of book – refreshing. Humor can be a good way to handle it. We all got a kick out of the “literal heart of Jesus” therapy group - joking about Ball-less Patrick.

    7. Why does Augustus write Hazel a eulogy before he dies? Why doesn't he present her with the ending of An Imperial Affliction instead?

    We write the end of our own story. He wanted her live her life in the now (not be worried about mom or dad).
    We enjoyed the quote: “The marks humans leave are too often scars.”

    8. Does Peter Van Houten actually care about Hazel and Augustus? Why do you think he feels the need to go to Gus's funeral at the end?

    He may be beyond feeling (he lost his daughter, gave up on life, used drinking to cope). He felt guilty. Even though we didn't like him, we were glad he came to funeral just to get closure. We were also happy Hazel didn't need the end of the story from him.

    9. What does Hazel learn from her relationship with Augustus? Is it a deeper relationship than most teenage first loves, or does it just feel that way because they have such limited time?

    She learn its ok to be a grenade (“You don't get to choose if you get hurt in this world...but you do have some say in who hurts you. I like my choices.”)
    It was deeper than just a teenage crush.
    A “side effect of cancer” is growing up earlier.

    Another loved quote:
    I'm in love with you," he said quietly.
    "Augustus," I said.
    "I am," he said. He was staring at me, and I could see the corners of his eyes crinkling. "I'm in love with you, and I'm not in the business of denying myself the simple pleasure of saying true things. I'm in love with you, and I know that love is just a shout into the void, and that oblivion is inevitable, and that we're all doomed and that there will come a day when all our labor has been returned to dust, and I know the sun will swallow the only earth we'll ever have, and I am in love with you.”
    10. Talk about how you experienced this book? Is it too sad, too tragic to contemplate? Or did you find it in some way uplifting?

    It helped me appreciate everyday. It was uplifting. We all will/have experienced cancer, death. The book helped take away the awkwardness of cancer. It was just a part of their life. We all want to live, love, feel normal.


    Some of our favorite quotes:

    Grief does not change you, Hazel. It reveals you.”
     
    I fell in love the way you fall asleep: slowly, and then all at once.”
     
    Some people don't understand the promises they're making when they make them," I said.
    "Right, of course. But you keep the promise anyway. That's what love is. Love is keeping the promise anyway.”
     
    There are infinite numbers between 0 and 1. There's .1 and .12 and .112 and an infinite collection of others. Of course, there is a bigger infinite set of numbers between 0 and 2, or between 0 and a million. Some infinities are bigger than other infinities. A writer we used to like taught us that. There are days, many of them, when I resent the size of my unbounded set. I want more numbers than I'm likely to get, and God, I want more numbers for Augustus Waters than he got. But, Gus, my love, I cannot tell you how thankful I am for our little infinity. I wouldn't trade it for the world. You gave me a forever within the numbered days, and I'm grateful. 

CONTENT:
LANGUAGE/PROFANITY: Heavy (30+ swear words, sh**, f***, etc.)
SEXUALITY: Moderate/Heavy (Not necessarily explicit, but one sex scene, lots of talk of losing virginity and joking about getting laid)
DRUG/ALCOHOL USE: Moderate (Augustus always has cigarette in mouth, though he never actually smokes it, underage drinking)
INTENSE/SCARY SCENES: Heavy (Not freaky scary, just intense issues with cancer and dying) 
VIOLENCE: Mild

 

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

"The Diviners" {by Libba Bray} Book Club Ideas


MARCH 2013 BOOK CLUB 


We kept the decor simple with a few classic 1920's touches.
(Which involved LOTS of pearls and feathers)
Whenever we read a book that's set in a different era, we tend to use it as an excuse to play dress up.  ;)
We set up a photo booth in my front room where everyone could pile on the fur coats, feather boas, pearls and other props for a memorable 1920's portrait!

 Here's an example of Beth and I dancing the Charleston! 
To see all of our FABULOUS 1920's photos, check out the earlier post HERE

The evenings menu was themed after many popular 1920's food and drinks.

Refreshing virgin mint juleps
and of course,a tub full of"giggle water"
YUMMMMMM......
The mini pineapple upside-down cakes were UH-MAZING!
If you'd like to impress your friends and make your tummy happy, make your own mini cakes! You can grab the recipe from BIG MAMA'S HOME KITCHEN 
(the link will take you directly to the recipe)
IT ALL STARTED WITH A HARMLESS OUIJA BOARD...

The wilted girls spring up from their club chairs. “What’ve you got there? Is that a wee- gee board?” one of them asks.“Isn’t it darling? Mother bought it for me. It’s supposed to be haunted,” the hostess says and laughs. “Well, I don’t believe that, naturally.” The hostess places the heart- shaped planchette in the middle of the board. “Let’s conjure up some fun, shall we? 
“What is your name, o great spirit?” the hostess insists.The planchette moves quickly.N-A-U-G-H-T-Y-J-O-H-N“Why are you here, old sport?” George asks the board.The planchette moves so quickly they can barely keep up.I-H-O-L-D-T-H-E-K-E-Y-S-O-F-H-E-L-L-A-N-D-D-E-A-T-H. W-R-A-T-H-I-S-C-O-M-E-A-R-M-A-G-E-D-D-O-N-B-A-B-Y-LO-N-W-H-O-R-E.“Stop it this instant!” the hostess shouts."...Make it stop, make it stop!” one girl screeches, and even the jaded boys pale and move back.“Stop, spirit! I said stop!” the hostess shouts.
"Deep in the cellar of the dilapidated house, a furnace comes to life with a death rattle like the last bitter cough of a dying man laughing contemptuously at his fate. A faint glow emanates from that dark, foul- smelling earthen tomb. Yes, something moves again in the shadows. A harbinger of much greater evil to come. Naughty John has come home. And he has work to do." 
Wait... is that Naughty John hiding in the shadows?! CREEEEEPPPYYYY!

We all agreed that to date, this was one of the creepiest books we've read in our book club! 
That fact that we read this spooky book in February (the month of LOVE) instead of October only made matters worse. If we had picked The Diviners as our October "spooky book," maybe we could have mentally prepared ourselves better for the late night readings and nightmares that always followed! 
BUT...
I'll admit, I kind of love reading a book that made me look over my shoulder at the turn of every page...
...does that mean I have a secret dark side??


our moderator Kellie. started off the evening with a spunky quiz full of 1920's slang that we had to guess the meanings of! 
The oh so fabulously dressed Bethany won the prize!

Download the free quiz & answer key HERE!


Inside the grand prize was:
-A beautifully folded book page to display
-A CD full of jazzy tunes
-A rare white gnome taken from the museum of the creepy crawlies! ;)

Q: The Diviners is nothing short of spectacular. Could you tell us a little about how the idea was born?
Libba: The boring truth is that the idea for this came to me, as is usually the case at my house, over a longer stretch of time—no thunderclap moment. I have long been a fan of all things supernatural and horror. And I am particularly a fan of TV shows like “X-Files,” “Buffy the Vampire Slayer,” “Dr. Who,” and “Firefly” in which there are spooky episodes atop longer, more political/existential story arcs. I really wanted to play in that sandbox. And so, about four years ago or so, I started thinking about all of the things I enjoy reading/watching and thought, well, hell’s bells, why not have fun and try my hand at that myself.  I am being incredibly selfish by making a big Cobb Salad of all of the things which interest me: history, politics, serial killers, New York City, religious/ethical quandaries, the American mythos, identity, class and race politics, the XL Creepy, literature, music, dancing, witty banter, and people wearing outrageous clothes, possibly adorned with feathers. But with ritual murder and ghosts and cornfields. You know, like you do.
So, #1 is that I’m selfish. #2 is that, apparently, there is a lot that interests me, most of it creepy. #3 is that I have always been fascinated by the 1920s—I started reading Dorothy Parker at an impressionable age and The Great Gatsby also made quite the impression on me as a teenager.

Q: How do you want to be remembered in 250 years time when bright, young, robotic-minds wander a museum of ancient 21st century books and stumble across one bearing your name?

Libba: As that author who was part of an international scandal involving Ryan Gosling, street mimes, and a drag queen musical featuring the songs of Burt Bacharach. 

{*I don't know if I could love Libba any more after reading this answer lol!!}


 Q: Can you give us any hints on what to expect from book two? I, for one, am dying to find out more about the Man in the Stovepipe Hat (who what is he?!) – can we expect answers?
Libba:   You can expect more pages. Probably odd punctuation. And “Diviners 2” somewhere on the title page.  I kid. I can tell you that there is a character, a Diviner, who makes a brief appearance in the first DIVINERS, and she takes a much more central role in the second book as does Henry. We learn a bit more about Project Buffalo and The Man in the Stovepipe Hat, or Mr. Fun Times, as I call him. Of course, this could all change and I could end up giving you an armadillo musical in the middle of the book. It could happen.


Below are a few of the questions we answered in our discussion.

To read our responses to all of the discussion questions check out our book review.

Kellie put together these adorable take home tins for each of us.
There were some fun and mysterious treasures hidden inside!
Thank you Libba for writing such a spunky, creepy, mysterious, fun, horrifying, jazzy book that will haunt me forever! 
Seriously, I can't get naughty Johns eerie song out of my head!!!



I've said it many times before but I'm saying it again, I LOVE our book club!

FREE DIVINERS PRINTABLE HERE
READ OUR BOOK REVIEW HERE

Monday, September 24, 2012

"Extrememly Loud & Incredibly Close" {by Jonathan Safran Foer} Book Club Ideas

SEPTEMBER BOOK CLUB:

"Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close"
By: Jonathan Safran Foer

"I regret that it takes a life to learn how to live."


We chose to read Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close in honor of 9/11 and it turned out to be an unforgettable evening.

We started out the discussion with each of us answering the question, "Where were you when 9/11 happened?"As each of us answered that question, we were transported back 11 years to a different time in each of our lives remembering with perfect reflection how we felt on that fateful day. It was a wonderful way to start off our discussion for this beautiful book.

If you haven't read this book for yourself yet, just look at some of the hidden gems within its pages.

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

"The Grand Sophy" {by Georgette Heyer} Book Club Ideas

APRIL BOOK CLUB:
"THE GRAND SOPHY"
By: Georgette Hyer


LET'S START WITH THE AMAZING FOOD!

We've had several English inspired menu's over the years BUT we still seem to find new foods we haven't tried and I love that we continue to surprise ourselves!


Monday, January 30, 2012

"Left To Tell" {by Immaculee Ilibagiza} Book Club Ideas

JANUARY BOOK CLUB:
"LEFT TO TELL"
By: Immaculee Ilibagiza

We decided to mix up our book selection this month and try a non fiction story about this amazingly brave woman named Immaculee who found God while being stuck (literally) in the middle of a brutal Rwandan genocide.