Wednesday, December 31, 2014

A Look Back on 2014



We had such a great year reading these 12 books and everyone did such a fabulous job turning their book into a night to remember!

Lets take a look back on each book we read in 2014 and recap our thoughts. 
(I made it really easy to click on all the links to see everything we did.)
 So check it out and get some great ideas for your book club and reading list.

{January}
The Monuments Men
by, Robert M Edsel



 We always try to pick at least one book that is a non fiction or based on non fiction story. "The Monuments Men" was our 2014 non fiction pick. 
Our group thought that the author could have made the story flow a little better with the retelling of the historic events and make it more of a story, not SO heavy on the facts. BUT, we all learned so much from reading it and felt so much emotion for this time in history that made up for the over abundance of facts. 
(PS. We also felt that The Monuments Men movie didn't give it the depth that it deserved.)

Our Star Rating: 3.5 Stars


{February}
The Snow Child
by, Eowyn Ivey

 What a magical book we found in "The Snow Child". Eowyn Ivey did an awesome job with this book. You think you have it figured out what is really going on in the book and then something magical happens and you change your mind and start thinking something else. This happened to me several times. Did the snow child really live in the woods alone or was she magic in some way. You will have to read and decide for yourself.

Our Star Rating: 3.75 Stars 

{March}
Carter Beats the Devil
by, Glen David Gold

We loved, loved, loved this book, "Carter Beats the Devil" . Glen David Gold is a great story teller. This book has lots of twists and turns and then it all comes together in the end. The book takes place in a fun time in history where magic is mystical and the mystery behind who did it is amazing. Leigh Bardugo of the Grisha Trilogy introduced us to this book and we will be forever grateful for her recommendation. Thanks Leigh. Oh and Glen David Gold we want more books from you.

Our Star Rating: 4.5 Stars

{April}
Walt Disney: An American Original
by, Bob Thomas

We all love going to Disneyland and so we thought this book "Walt Disney: An American Original" by Bob Thomas was the perfect book to read so that we could do a Disney themed book club.  We went all out crazy for this book club. It was so interesting to learn about Walt and where he came from the ideas behind the iconic Disney things we know today. Walt Disney was an amazing, creative, driven, and talented man.

Our Star Rating: 3.7 Stars

{May}
The Husband's Secret
by, Liane Moriarty

Oh we loved this book. "The Husband's Secret" was a fun book to read for the summer. Reading about how the women's lives in the book came together was a twisty and unique way to tell the story. I really loved in the end how she tells the what ifs because when do we ever get to actually hear about the what ifs?
  
Our Star Rating: 4 Stars

{June}
The Goldfinch
by, Donna Tartt

We were asked by Little Brown Publishing to read and do a book club on "The Goldfinch" . But they didn't have to bend our arm too much because we had been hearing buzz about this book and we were glad to switch up our book picks a bit in order to read this book. This is a book with a long story lasting around 30 years. So there is a lot of information you need to know and build up of characters but even though it is quite long it is well worth the length. We were a little mixed on our liking it or not liking it therefore the 3.5 star rating but it was a unique story and very interesting to learn about the history of the artwork. This would make a great book club read.

Our Star Rating: 3.5 Stars

{July}
The Golem and the Jinni
by, Helene Wecker

We had such a fun time putting this book club together. "The Golem and the Jinni" was a fabulous read and such a great book to do a whole book club around. We made golems out of clay. We dressed in our best jinni attire. And we discussed the book under a tent that looked like we were in a genie bottle. This was a fun book club to be at and everyone thought the book was really good.

Our Star Rating: 4 Stars

{August}
Ruin and Rising
by, Leigh Bardugo

 Oh Leigh Bardugo really brought her "A" game when she wrote this series. We are in love with her!!! "Ruin and Rising" was a great last book in the Grisha Trilogy. We can't wait to read more from her. She has another series in the works that is somewhat related to this series and we will for sure read it.

Our Star Rating: 4.1 Stars

{September}
The Haunting of Hill House
by, Shirley Jackson

 We try to read a couple Halloween type books this time of year and so we thought we would try the classic tale of  "The Haunting of Hill House" . But for most of us this book didn't quite give us the haunted feel that we craved for this time of year. It was an okay book. Our star rating reflects that a bit. But you can always find fun ways to throw your book club to still make it a great night.

Our Star Rating: 2.75

{October}
Black Moon
by, Teri Harman

 "Black Moon" is the second book in a trilogy and it surpassed all of our expectations of a second book. Sometimes (well most of the time) the second book in a series is not my favorite. Teri did not disappoint in the second book of her series. This is a great witchy, Halloweenie book. Pick up this series and read it. You will be glad you did.

Our Star Rating:

{November}
Shadow on the Crown
by, Patricia Bracewell

Oh "Shadow on the Crown" how we love you. Plus book two comes out in February so we won't have to wait long to read the next book. This book is set in 1000 AD England and so there is so much you can do for your book club with decorations, food, and plus you can always email the author Patricia Bracewell and ask her to Skype in with your book club to answer all your questions. You've got to put this on the list for your book club.

Our Star Rating: 4.5 Stars


{December}
The Eye of Minds
by, James Dashner


"The Eye of Minds" is the book we are discussing next week but I will update this post when we have our review, ideas and star rating done. Let's cross our fingers that maybe we can get James Dashner to come to or Skype book club that night.

Our Star Rating: 3.5 Stars

I hope this gave you some good ideas for your book club or the next book you might want to read. Enjoy!

xoxo'


Kellie

Monday, June 16, 2014

"The Husband's Secret" Part III Book Review {by Liane Moriarty}

TITLE OF THE BOOK: The Husband's Secret

AUTHOR: Liane Moriarty

PUBLISHER: Amy Einhorn Books/Putnam

NUMBER OF PAGES: 394

YEAR PUBLISHED: 2013

GENRE: Fiction






Book Summary: Imagine that your husband wrote you a letter, to be opened after his death. Imagine, too, that the letter contains his deepest, darkest secret—something with the potential to destroy not just the life you built together, but the lives of others as well. Imagine, then, that you stumble across that letter while your husband is still very much alive.


Our Star Rating: 4 Stars


Kellie did such an amazing job with this discussion.  When everyone came in, we were all handed a personalized letter with the message:

"For my book club friend, Kate
to be opened only in the event
of the discussion"

Then we all gathered out on her beautiful patio to begin our discussion.  Kellie opened by asking the question everyone had asked themselves a million times while reading this book, "Would you open the letter?"  There was no hesitation and the answer was unanimous, yes we would all open the letter as soon as we found it.  The real discussion came when we were all asked what would we then do with that shocking, unanticipated confession.  We all had ways we hoped we would react, but decided that when faced with such a raw reality, we have no idea how we would respond.

Kellie then asked everyone individually to open their letter and read it to the group.  Each letter was thoughtfully written and posed a question about a theme, character or situation from the book that we would then discuss here are a couple of examples of ideas that we discussed:


"To error is human, to forgive, divine"
There is a definite strong thread of the idea of forgiveness throughout the book.  Every character is faced with the decision to forgive or not at some point in the plot.  We were all posed the question would we be able to forgive knowing the information that Rachel acquires, or that Cecilia discovers or that Tess is confronted with from the beginning?  We had very mixed answers, some talked about the circumstances, some discussed how they sincerely hoped they would react while others definitely felt they would not be able to.  It was definitely an interesting discussion.

The issue of parenting and the role of fathers
This was a fascinating question to discuss.  Throughout the book you read about many different families as well as generations.  They all go about life in very different ways.  At one point in the story one mother says to another "You're a mother, you would do anything for your child, as would I" we discussed different boundaries we set for our children and if there were limits to what you would let them get away with.  Most everyone in the group agreed that they thought it was necessary for children to experience consequences for their actions, and while it would be hard to be in the situation that some of the mothers in the book found themselves in, we agreed that it would have been better to not make excuses and to confront the difficult consequences of their children's actions.

The role of fathers was an unusual question that generated quite a bit of discussion.  We talked about how the father's role has evolved and how they are more involved in family life now.  It was interesting to hear about everyone's home life while they were growing up and how it differs now with their husband and their own children. Fathers are more involved in the child rearing process now a days, they have a more equal role in their children's lives, for the most part.  In older generations, fathers were seen more as the bread winners and rarely had any interaction with their children.  There are a couple of fathers in the book who interpret their role as father very differently from each other, and it was interesting to go back and analyze them in the light of this discussion

The idea of how grief can be entangled with guilt
Every single character in this book is riddled with grief at some point in the story, and it was interesting to analyze all the different ways in which they dealt with it.  Everyone griefs in a different way, and we discussed how their different grieving processes changed the outcome of the story.  We discussed alternated endings if some of the characters had just dealt with their grief in different ways.  We also talked about how guilt affected some of their grieving and how that, as well, altered some major life decisions.

Is a secret better left a secret 
We wrapped up the evening by discussing the controversial question of is a secret better left untold.  There were a lot of different feelings on this one, but almost everyone agreed that if they were Cecilia, they would never want to find out the secret her husband had been keeping for years. But then we brought up poor Rachel and how the secret of how Janie died, had taken over her life and had never let her fully move on, she had become obsessed with unraveling that horrible secret.  We talked about when holding a secret before telling asking yourself, who will this benefit, am I looking for an outcome that will only benefit me, or will others gain something from learning this information.  We also agreed that it definitely depends on the circumstance.

Other topics we discussed were divorce, the Berlin wall and how it symbolized the secret, ethics and values, emotional cheating vs. physical cheating, which is worse?, phobias, and marriage.  This book is the perfect book club book, there are endless things to discuss!  


Content Categories:
Language/Profanity: Heavy
Sexuality: Heavy
Violence: Medium
Drug and Alcohol use: Mild

This review was written by Kate


Wednesday, June 11, 2014

"The Husband's Secret" Part II Book Club Ideas {by Liane Moriarty}


Welcome to Part II of our meeting for THE HUSBANDS SECRET where you will find everything you need to host the perfect book club for this book!

After we finished eating our delicious Australian BBQ dinner (which can be seen in Part I of this post) we settled in our seats to see what our Moderator Kellie had in store for our discussion. 
Kellie handed each of us a personalized letter addressed on the envelope with:
"For my book club friend _________
to be opened only in the event of this discussion."
Inside each letter was a different discussion question for us to read and gossip about as a group. GENIUS!
discussion questions
If you would like to print off the letters/discussion questions for your book club then you can do so HERE!
Before we started our discussion, Kellie had a unique game planned inspired by the book character Tess, who seemed to have anything and everything you could ever want in her purse! Kellie had everyone grab their purses and she asked people to pull out random items and who ever did it first got a point.  Some of the items requested were: nail polish, a pen, hair brush, socks, Costco Card etc. It was hilarious to see who had what in their purses! 

You can download the Purse Game HERE.
Julie won the big prize which consisted of :
-A cute red purse
-One of our book club books that we are reading this fall
-Some "delicious" Vegemite
-And a playlist Kellie put together

After the game we all opened our letters and began our discussion.
Kellie put together a Powerpoint for the Husbands Secret that can be used for your book club meeting or you can just read up on the author and many other interesting tid bits from the book. 

You can find the Powerpoint for The Husbands Secret HERE.

Kellie also created a wonderful SPOILER FREE character list to help keep who's who straight in the book which can be found HERE.
 We were STILL talking about this book even after we had concluded and people were heading home!

Kellie sent each of us home with an 80's Playlist she put together inspired by the music that Janie listened to that was briefly mentioned in the book. Kellie had this playing in the background while we ate and I can tell you that most of us were tapping our toes and singing along!
The Husbands Secret made for such a great night of eating, chatting, discussing this great book and having loads of fun! I would recommend this book to any book club or friend and I'd love to hear what you thought of this book in the comments!

See part I of the Husbands Secret post HERE

Monday, June 9, 2014

"The Husband's Secret" Part I Book Club Ideas {by Liane Moriarty}



This Books Moderator was
KELLIE!

*As Moderator, Kellie planned the entire evening: finding all of the book inspired décor, putting together the menu, hosting the giveaway, creating the discussion questions and giving each of us our own SECRET letter that we opened during the discussion!
THANK YOU Kellie!

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"None of us ever know all the possible courses our lives  could have and maybe should have taken. It's probably just as well. Some secrets are meant to stay secret forever. Just
ask Pandora." — Liane Moriarty (The Husband's Secret)



We read THE HUSBANDS SECRET for the month of May and discussed it first thing in June and can I just say,
...this book is fantastic!
I loved it. I finished it in no time flat because I HAD to know how it was all going to end!
This book has gotten loads of attention and good reviews for a reason, do yourself a favor and read this book asap!

WHY ARE THERE THREE DIFFERENT BOOK COVERS??
         Moriarty likes to have a different book cover for United States, United Kingdom and Australia for all her books.
*The cover with the balloon is the Australian book cover.
*The cover with the shattering flower is the American book cover.
*The cover with the butterfly in the jar is the United Kingdom cover.
Kellie did a great job making sure each book cover was represented in the decor she set up!

Since this book was based in Australia and was written by an Australian author, we decided to have an Australian inspired BBQ complete with shrimp on the barbie.
Check out our complete Australian BBQ menu...
Kellie ordered some of the infamous VEGEMITE from Australia  for us all try....
...How was it you ask? Let's just say that she had PLENTY of it leftover.
Vegemite is a yeast extract that has a salty, malty flavor and is used on toast and sandwiches and must be an acquired taste because it's no peanut butter!


Chanel brought her super tasty quinoa and spinach salad that she blogged about HERE and trust me, you will WANT this recipe for your next get together because it will blow your mind with how good it is!

The Food was seriously SOOOOO GOOOOOD!
[I dare you to resist licking your screen]
And can we talk about the desserts...
YES LETS!
(Have I mentioned that I LOVE when authors mention lots of desserts in their books?!)


We were treated to FRENCH MACAROONS, HOT CROSS BUNS & INDIVIDUAL PAVLOVAS with a delicious strawberry sauce...Drool.

You can find a similar hot cross bun recipe HERE and the individual pavlova recipe can be found HERE.
Here's a little "DID YOU KNOW" about Liane Moriarty.

Liane's been heli-skiing, skydiving and scuba diving but now prefers to run around with
her kids. She mentions that she only ever went skydiving once and has no intention of ever doing it again. She likes to give the impression that she's led an incredibly active, athletic life to make up for all the hours she now spends lying around reading novels and eating Turkish Delight!

In honor of Liane, we made sure to have lots of Turkish Delight around to nibble on while we discussed her brilliant book.
You can find the Pomegranate delights HERE and the fruit delights HERE.
It's no secret that there is a LOT more to share with you about our book club meeting on The Husbands Secret so make sure to check back this Wednesday for the final post with all of our meeting details and all the printables and downloads you could ever want!

Friday, May 30, 2014

Looks from Books: The Husband's Secret


Our book this month is The Husband's Secret, a novel by Liane Moriarty. 
This novel is set in Australia and centers around the life of Cecilia Fitzpatrick, a mother and wife, who finds an envelope that is not to be opened until her husband's death. However, when Cecilia finds the letter her husband is still alive..... This book is a fun and interesting read that will keep you reading until the last page. 




My look incorporated a white blouse, leather skirt and leopard print flats with dark sunglasses to mimic the intrigue and mystery of the book. I love this envelope shaped mint clutch from J Crew, and I used it in the shoot to create a pop of color as well as the look of opening an envelope. See more of our looks on our blog Looks by Lovelies.

Leopard Flats - Nordstrom Rack (similar)
Leather Skirt - Vince Camuto Nordstrom Rack (similar)
White Blouse - Nordstrom Rack (similar)
Necklace - see necklace layering post
Sunnies - Nordstrom 
Mint Clutch - J Crew